a short popular saying, usually of unknown and ancient origin, that expresses effectively some commonplace truth or useful thoughtThere is certainly truth in proverbs and even more truth in Proverbs. But, one thing that neither of them are is a promise. I often see people claim proverbs as thought they are some kind of personal promise directly to them from God. Proverbs 22:6 is notoriously used this way.
Train[a] a child in the way he should go,As parents, we love this. There is truth here. Teaching kids things in their formative years has a way of embedding those teachings in a way that is not possible at older ages. Recent research in to early childhood education certainly support this truth. But, does this eliminate the free will of that child? And, if child does turn from it does that mean that the parents are failures as parents? See the danger? These are general truths. These are wise sayings. This is good moral teaching. But but that's it. In fact, take a look at the next verse.
and when he is old he will not turn from it.
The rich rule over the poor,This is another reality that we see around us. We see that there is wisdom and truth in this statement. But, it also sounds like something that Jesus blows apart when he hits the scene. This is an observation of how things are now, but clearly God has better plans. Clearly, the Kingdom that Jesus comes to establish looks very different from this reality.
and the borrower is servant to the lender.
So, read Proverbs. Let God speak to you though them. But, always keep in mind that followers of Jesus are regularly called to act contrary to "common sense." A life of faith will, on practically a daily basis, take you outside of and often in direct contradiction to common sense.
Thoughts?